Guys and sex

Do you think guys take sex lightly?? Is sex to them only for pleasure?

I think that for some and at certain ages the answer is yes, but i do believe that there are guys out there that are actually looking to love someone. I think they are just harder to find because they dont parade around showing themselves off. You have to find them. But then I also do believe that sex will always mean more to women because in the end the carry the baby. A guy will have  sex and it can mean a lot to him and if he gets his girl pregnant then he is proud and happy but then he is done with the physical part. The girls live with it for the next nine months. Dont get me wrong I do believe that it is extremly rewarding but at the same time, its hard and for us sex means more. It leads to pregnancy,,, obviouslt not every time but the possibility hangs in the air.

So what do others have to say about guys and sex.. you know I love feedback…. let me know! let me hear it form you guys and girls!

 

–Danielle Stewart

Confidence Matters 11:00am Mountain Time on myexpertsolution.com

Play at Love

This coming Monday on Confidence Matters we are going to be talking about Playing at Love.

The show was inspired by the saying “Women play at sex to get Love, men play at love to get Sex”. I know that it is a little blunt but I see it happen so often. There are so many women out there that think if they give the guy what he wants sexually then he will fall in love with her and fulfill her need to be loved and cared for. Men, on the other hand, they will make a woman feel that love and compassion to get her into bed with him. He will tell her what she wants hear. hold her hand, cuddle her, rub her neck, anything that is meaningful and sensual. How can you tell if he is true or not? And how can you tell if she is wanting more or not?

We all know that men and women are very different.  Especially when it comes to love. We all have our needs. Being men and women our needs are different. A woman has a need to be softly touched and kissed, looked at deep in the eye, the feeling that she is all that matters in his world. For a guy he wants that companionship as well but when he is ready for it. In the meantime he has “other” needs that need to be met.  Smart guys know the right thing to say the right thing to do to be with a woman. The only bad thing is that the woman takes it as he really does care about her and he wants to be with her. So she thinks that if she gives him what he wants then he will love her and give her what she needs. The only problem is, that is not what the guy is looking for.

This topic can go so deep and can have so many different views and I would love to hear them! Please email me at confidencematters@myexpertsolution.com

Cant wait to hear from you!